If you're spending your first Thanksgiving in the US, you're in for a unique experience! As one of the country's most beloved holidays, Thanksgiving offers a wonderful opportunity to embrace American culture, try delicious food, and reflect on what you're grateful for. Whether you're curious about its origins, unsure of how people celebrate, or looking for ways to join in, this newsletter has you covered.

Thanksgiving has its roots in early US history. The first Thanksgiving is believed to have taken place in 1621, when Pilgrims and Native Americans shared a harvest feast in Plymouth, Massachusetts. This event symbolized a moment of cooperation and gratitude. However, Thanksgiving as we know it today became a national holiday in 1863, during the Civil War, when President Abraham Lincoln proclaimed it a day to give thanks and heal a divided nation.

While the historical accuracy of the first Thanksgiving is debated, the spirit of gratitude and togetherness remains central to the holiday.

Thanksgiving is celebrated on the fourth Thursday of November every year, making it a long weekend for many. This year, the date of Thanksgiving is November 28, 2024. Here's what you can expect:

1. The Feast

The Thanksgiving meal is the highlight of the day. Traditional dishes often include:

• Turkey: The centerpiece of most tables, typically roasted or baked.
• Stuffing: A savory mix of bread, herbs, and spices.
• Mashed Potatoes and Gravy: Creamy potatoes topped with a rich gravy.
• Cranberry Sauce: A sweet and tangy side that complements the savory flavors.
• Pumpkin Pie: A classic dessert that rounds off the meal.

If you are attending a gathering at someone's home, don't be surprised if you're invited to contribute a dish. It's ok to bring something Indian as it will could be a great way to share your culture, too!

2. Family and Friends

Thanksgiving is a time for loved ones to come together. Families often travel long distances to celebrate, making airports and highways very busy during this season. If you’re away from family, Friendsgiving—a more casual celebration with friends—has become increasingly popular.

3. Giving Thanks

At the heart of Thanksgiving is gratitude. Many families take a moment to share what they’re thankful for before the meal.

4. Parades and Football

• Parades: The Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade in New York City is the most famous, featuring giant balloons, floats, and performances. You can watch it live on TV if you’re not near NYC.
• Football: Watching American football games is a Thanksgiving tradition for many. If you're new to the sport, check out this blog post I wrote about the basics!

5. Black Friday

The day after Thanksgiving kicks off the holiday shopping season. Black Friday is known for massive sales and crowded stores. If you’re shopping for deals, go early or consider browsing online to avoid the chaos.

How to Join in the Celebrations

If you’re unsure how to celebrate Thanksgiving, here are some ideas:

1. Attend a Thanksgiving Dinner

Many universities, community centers, and churches host Thanksgiving dinners for students and those without family nearby. It’s a great way to meet people and enjoy the holiday meal without pressure.

2. Host Your Own Celebration

Organize a small Friendsgiving dinner with friends or colleagues. You don’t have to cook a turkey—simpler dishes like roast chicken, mashed potatoes, or vegetarian options can work just as well. Ask those coming to also contribute a dish to share to alleviate some of the pressure of hosting.

3. Volunteer

Thanksgiving is a time to give back. Look for opportunities to volunteer at a soup kitchen or food drive. It’s a meaningful way to connect with your local community.

4. Try New Foods

Take this chance to explore American cuisine. You can also introduce your friends to Indian dishes—imagine the possibilities of a fusion Thanksgiving menu!

5. Watch the Parade or Football

Tune in to the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade or catch a football game on TV to get a feel for the festive vibe.

6. Reflect and Share Gratitude

Even if you’re far from home, take a moment to reflect on what you’re thankful for. You can call or video chat with family and friends back in India to share this tradition.

Tips for a Smooth Thanksgiving

1. Plan Ahead

Stores and restaurants may close early, so stock up on groceries or essentials a few days in advance.

2. Travel Early

If you’re traveling, expect busy airports and roads. Plan accordingly to avoid stress.

3. Reflect and Share Gratitude

If you're invited to a Thanksgiving dinner, don’t hesitate to ask about traditions or how you can participate.

Thanksgiving is more than just a holiday; it’s a chance to connect, reflect, and create new memories. Whether you’re celebrating with friends, exploring traditions, or just enjoying a long weekend, make the most of this uniquely American experience.

Wishing you a warm and happy Thanksgiving!

Cheers ☕